Friends and lovers come and go in our lives. Like vagabonds, some keep moving on from one place to another, whereas others will eventually find a place and settle down forever.
I am not one who has many friends. Ok, let me rephrase it. In my life, I have many friends but only 2 I can truly consider as my friend. The rest? Like the weather; rainy days they'll remember me and sunny days? Poof!~
Recently, a friend of mine misunderstood about me and we ended up not talking anymore. I've known her since end 2007. I naively thought that she would understand my personalities and what kind of person I am. I guess I was wrong about it. Due to something I had said to a third party, she thought the wrong way of me. Initially I was affected by the whole incident. Such incident wasn't new to me. Similar cases as in friends misunderstood me had happened many times.
After a few days, I told myself that I should not let such a trivial matter affects my emotions. In life, there are bigger challenges ahead waiting for me to confront them. I realised that these are the people I should not consider as my friends for true friends will not give you bad attitude forever. True friends will sit down, think over the situation and confront it maturedly. After the confrontation, moves on and the friendship will be stronger than before for it has passed another trial. After thinking it this way, I felt much better and moved on my life without this girl in my life. I can't say that I am a fantastic person or the perfect friend. But at least I know that when I decided to befriend someone, I'll give in 100% of myself to that friend.
"Nothing is predestined: The obstacles of your past can become the gateways that lead to new beginnings." - Ralph Blum
I am not one who has many friends. Ok, let me rephrase it. In my life, I have many friends but only 2 I can truly consider as my friend. The rest? Like the weather; rainy days they'll remember me and sunny days? Poof!~
Recently, a friend of mine misunderstood about me and we ended up not talking anymore. I've known her since end 2007. I naively thought that she would understand my personalities and what kind of person I am. I guess I was wrong about it. Due to something I had said to a third party, she thought the wrong way of me. Initially I was affected by the whole incident. Such incident wasn't new to me. Similar cases as in friends misunderstood me had happened many times.
After a few days, I told myself that I should not let such a trivial matter affects my emotions. In life, there are bigger challenges ahead waiting for me to confront them. I realised that these are the people I should not consider as my friends for true friends will not give you bad attitude forever. True friends will sit down, think over the situation and confront it maturedly. After the confrontation, moves on and the friendship will be stronger than before for it has passed another trial. After thinking it this way, I felt much better and moved on my life without this girl in my life. I can't say that I am a fantastic person or the perfect friend. But at least I know that when I decided to befriend someone, I'll give in 100% of myself to that friend.
"Nothing is predestined: The obstacles of your past can become the gateways that lead to new beginnings." - Ralph Blum
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